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To Be A Pillar

It's easy to be weak but it's hard to be strong! What do you want your life to say about you?

"The wise woman builds not only for herself but for those who follow along behind her." -Joy Haney

You have to confidently know that God will fulfill every promise he has every made to you & trust that it will happen in his timing. It's when we get impatient and want it our way that we become weak and fall short. God has called each of us to be a servant in his kingdom and sometimes we get caught up and forget its not about me or you! Its always about the kingdom, you can't serve people and bring them to the kingdom without being a people person or without being about His business! If the world can't see Jesus in you and through you why would they want it?

Sometimes by being still and silent you are standing tall & speaking loud! It is ignorant and careless to share every thought and opinion that we have. Think before you speak, blog, tweet or text!! Only share if it will benefit another, sharing to make ourselves feel better or get something off our chest is not worth it. If a situation bothers you enough to talk about it, the only person you should talk to is God. What do you want your life to say about you?

You don't have to hold a special position or title to be a leader. To be a great leader you must decide if every action you take and every word you speak is to benefit and better the lives around you. Never speak out in spite or shut people out if they do wrong by you, but instead embrace them and love them through their trials. Even God said "forgive them for they know not what they do." So, who are we to write someone off for doing the wrong thing? The way you handle a situation will make or break you and trust me there is always someone watching. I want my life to say of me that I was a strong pillar that was never seduced by the world and that I cared about people and the effect I had on them.

"Before you act, listen. Before you react, speak. Before you spend, earn. Before you criticize, wait. Before you pray, forgive. Before you quit, try." -Ernest Hemingway

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  1. Beautifully said! These are very wise words that have the power to change lives when applied! I always love reading your anointed posts, Nisha....I love you! :)

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  2. I love you too!! I'm glad you read them, I don't know how many people actually read them..lol

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